Then, I fell in love with a girl. She was bisexual, and I was unaware that she was already seeing someone else. Despite my feelings, I showered her with drawings and occasional treats. Eventually, she reciprocated my feelings, and we started dating. But my inexperience and the fact that it was my first relationship led to our breakup after only a week. It seemed like every time I failed or made a mistake, I was forced to change myself. Perhaps that was my superpower: the ability to transform in the face of adversity.

      The COVID-19 pandemic was a turning point in my life. My skills in guitar, drawing, animation, and piano became my saving grace. My passion for these arts led me to meet many people who shared my interests. We would jam together daily, and they would often ask for my guidance. Eventually, they surpassed me in skill, and they no longer sought my help. It was a harsh reality check. I realized that, just like my parents, people can leave your life.

      When I started college, I found two close friends, and their number has only grown since then. They are the closest thing I have to a family, and they have made me feel loved and supported. One of them was even my crush, but I never confessed my feelings because I didn't want to jeopardize our friendship. They are my constant companions, always there to help me. They have changed my life for the better, and I will never forget them.

      This is my story. If I were to give it a title, it would be "Ugali." It's a testament to my journey of self-discovery and the people who have shaped me along the way.

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